Are you a loudspeaker, if not, then what?

If I speak slowly, it does not mean that I am suffering from something. It is my habit, I do not feel comfortable in speaking louder like I am always screaming. I only like loud s….ound, you’re right…

Are you a loudspeaker, if not, then what?

Hey, why do you speak so slowly?

Oh, sorry, you are mum.

Maybe she does not have the confidence to speak louder.

Ohh.. shit, she must be deaf that is why she thought she speak louder, but, actually she not.

There are so many people with so many theories. And, some of their theories are not right.

If I speak slowly, it does not mean that I am suffering from something. It is my habit, I do not feel comfortable in speaking louder like I am always screaming. I only like loud s….ound, you’re right…

Some people do not need loudspeakers. People call them loudspeakers. And, there are people like me who speak slowly (means low). Because we do not want to share our words with everyone sitting next to us. Not everyone needs to know what I am talking to my friend.

Speaking in a low voice is not a problem, it is not a disorder, it is not because of lack of confidence, or any other issue.
It’s just a habit that we carrying from our childhood. In our family, everyone speaks low because we have sharp ears (yeah not everyone).
I think it does not matter how you speak, if someone wants to ignore you, then they will not allow your loud voice to enter into their ears.
The important part of your talking is that people can understand what you want to tell them. Your loved ones may not care how you speak because there is a language used by dumb & deaf people. And, if they can understand the silence, then why you are not trying to guess what a low voice person is trying to say.
The fact is that if someone has a habit of speaking in a low tone that means he is sharing a secret with you.
Underneath are some of the assumptions that people create when someone speaks in a low voice.

  • He or she may be gossiping
  • Ohh..he or she must be talking about some romantic stuff
  • Shit...he or she is sharing a secret
  • He or she does not have confidence
  • Maybe he or she is afraid
  • He or she must be hiding something from us

And, last, he or she speaks low.

I am pretty sure, before creating assumptions, no one will say that he or she has a habit of speaking in a low voice.

If speaking low is not a good thing according to some speakers, then why pretty girls always speak low or even slowly. (Remember the dialogue of Anjali: “Well, hello Mrs. Sprightly.”
Daijaan: “Well, hello, sugar” from Movie Kabhi Kushi Kabhi Gham)

Well, the final note is - whether you speak like a loudspeaker or as low as whatever...you should be confident.

People will listen to what you are telling them. Your voice is the source of your believes and thoughts, so keep it clean, sharp, and sweet.

No matter you are loud or low.